Robert brought flowers to his departed wife's grave once a week. On one such visit, he heard painful sobs from a nearby plot and was touched by the sight of a man crying unabashedly while clutching a tombstone saying " Why? Why did you have to die? Why!?"
Approaching carefully, Robert told the man, " Hello, you must love the departed very very much. Was she your wife?"
The man looked up with tears in his eyes, " No! My wife's first husband!"