His phone rang in place of worship by accident during prayers.

The Priest scolded him.

The worshippers admonished him after prayers for interrupting.

His wife kept on lecturing on his carelessness all the way home.

You could see the shame, embarrassment and humiliation on his face.

He never stepped foot in there again.

That evening, he went to a bar.

He was still nervous and trembling.

He spilled his drink on the table, bottle falls by accident and it splashed on some people.

Those it touched rushed towards him. He closed his eyes expecting bashing of words or slaps. 

Instead they cared to know if he didn't get a cut from the broken bottle. 

The waiter apologized and gave him a napkin to clean himself.

The janitor mopped the floor.

The female manager offered him a complimentary drink.

She also gave him a huge hug and a peck while saying, "Don't worry man. Who doesn't make mistakes?"

He has not stopped going to that bar since then.

#Lesson

Sometimes our attitude as believers drives souls to Hell.

You can make a difference by how you treat people especially when they make mistakes.

* IF you cannot be a bridge  to connect people, then do not be a wall to separate them. 

* IF you cannot be a light to brighten people's good deeds then do not be darkness covering their efforts. 

* IF you cannot be water to help people's crops sprout, then do not be a pest destroying their crops. 

* IF you cannot be a vaccine to give life, do not be a virus to terminate it.

* IF you cannot be a pencil to write anyone's happiness, then try to be a nice eraser to remove their sadness.

We can always be each others keeper, let us resolve to heal the world and make it a better place. Yes, we can.

*INSPIRE SOMEONE TODAY*

Kenyan runner Abel Mutai was only a few meters from the finish line, but got confused with the signs and stopped, thinking he had finished the race. A Spanish man, Ivan Fernandez, was right behind him and, realizing what was going on, started shouting to the Kenyan to keep running. Mutai did not know Spanish and did not understand.

Realizing what was going on, Fernandez pushed Mutai to victory. A reporter asked Ivan, "Why did you do this?" Ivan replied, "My dream is that one day we can have some sort of community life where we push ourselves and help each other win." The reporter insisted "But why did you let the Kenyan win?" Ivan replied, "I didn't let him win, he was going to win. The race was his." 

The reporter insisted and asked again, "But you could have won!" Ivan looked at him and replied: "But what would be the merit of my victory? What would be the honor of this medal? What would my Mother think of it?" The values are transmitted from generation to generation. What values do we teach our children and how much do you inspire others to earn? Most of us take advantage of people's weaknesses instead of helping to strengthen them.

A father said to his daughter: You graduated with honors, here is a car that I acquired many years ago ... it is several years old.

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But before I give it to you, take it to the used car lot downtown and tell them I want to sell it and see how much they offer you.

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The daughter went to the used car lot, returned to her father and said, "They offered me $1,000 because it looks very worn out." The father said, "Take him to the pawn shop." The daughter went to the pawn shop, returned to her father and said, "The pawn shop offered $100 because it was a very old car." The father asked his daughter to go to a car club and show them the car.

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The daughter took the car to the club, returned and told her father, "Some people in the club offered $100,000 for it since it is a Nissan Skyline R34, an iconic car and sought after by many."

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The father said to his daughter, "I wanted you to know that the right place values ​​you the right way." If you are not valued, do not be angry, it means you are in the wrong place. Those who know your value are those who appreciate you. Never stay in a place where no one sees your value.

Laughter is the best medicine.....

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This killed me.

A woman dies. In heaven she sees a large Wall full of Clocks.

She asks angel: What are these for?

Angel answers: These are Lie Clocks, every person has a lie clock! Whenever you lie on earth, clock moves.

The woman points towards a clock and asks: Whose clock is this? ...

Angel says: Its Mother Teresa's. It never moved, showing that she never told lie.

The woman asks: Where are the clocks of our Married men?

The angel replies: Those are in our office, We use them as 'OFFICE FANS'

She then asked, what of the Married women?

The angel replied, 'those are out there generating electricity!'

😱😱😂😂😂

Happy Father's day

Money Works

To all parents🙏

There was a very brilliant boy, he always scored 100% in Science.

Got Selected for IIT Madras and scored excellent in IIT.

Went to the University of California for MBA.

Got a high paying job in America and settled there.

Married a Beautiful Tamil Girl.

Bought a 5 room big house and luxury cars.

He had everything that make him successful but a few years ago he committed suicide after shooting his wife and children.

*WHAT WENT WRONG?*

California Institute of Clinical Psychology Studied his case and found *"what went wrong?"*

The researcher met the boy's friends and family and found that he lost his job due to America's economic crisis and he had to sit without a job for a long time. 

After even reducing his previous salary amount, he didn't get any job. 

Then his house installment broke and he and his family lost the home. 

They survived a few months with less money and then he and his wife together decided to commit suicide. 

He first shot his wife and children and then shot himself.

The case concluded that the man was Programmed for *success* but he was not *trained for handling failures*.

Now let's come to the actual question.

*What are the habits of highly successful people?*

First of all, I want to tell you that if you have achieved everything, there is a chance to lose everything, nobody knows when the next economic crisis will hit the world. 

*The best success habit is getting trained for handling failures*.

I want to request every parent, please do not only program your child to be *successful* but *teach them how to handle failures* and also teach them proper lessons about life. 

Learning high-level science and maths will help them to clear competitive exams but a knowledge about life will help them to face every problem.

Teach them about how *money works* instead of teaching them to *work for money*. 

Help them in finding their passion because these degrees will not help them in the next economic crisis and we don't know when the next crisis will hit the world.

*"Success is a lousy teacher. Failure teaches you more."*

Take care.

Regards
Palani
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